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Sharon, what a great saying! It does have just a t...

2008-12-08T15:53:00.164-08:00

Sharon, what a great saying! It does have just a touch of sadness to it. A kind of settling feel. I also agree that it's an interesting thought :)

Bobby, a very smart girlfriend of mine once told m...

2008-12-08T15:28:00.000-08:00

Bobby, a very smart girlfriend of mine once told me..... the older you get the shorter the list becomes on what you "prefer" to have in a guy.

It becomes more of what you can live with....

I thought that was interesting.

"I can introduce you to her but you are going to h...

2008-12-08T06:22:29.864-08:00

"I can introduce you to her but you are going to have to keep her."

Now that's an interesting perspective-the long run :)

Hi Singlegirl, Great tips! I always tell my clien...

2008-12-08T06:16:00.000-08:00

Hi Singlegirl, Great tips! I always tell my clients "I can introduce you to her but you are going to have to keep her." I agree that all the PU moves may grab our attention but how long can a guy really keep that up? Typically, not long...and for me, that is when I would lose interest!

xoxo~

"However, I place more value in honesty and truthf...

2008-12-07T14:50:57.474-08:00

"However, I place more value in honesty and truthfulness. Superficial actions fade in time, especially when the "honeymoon" phase is over. I'd rather find a person that doesn't have to "front" in order to get me."

You hit the nail on the head Sharon. Unfortunately, we have a very judgmental society. I believe if two people are right for each other, the fronting phase doesn't last too long.

Great comment Sharon :)

These are great tips! It would be nice to find th...

2008-12-07T14:20:00.000-08:00

These are great tips! It would be nice to find these qualities in a guy, really .....

However, I place more value in honesty and truthfulness. Superficial actions fade in time, especially when the "honeymoon" phase is over. I'd rather find a person that doesn't have to "front" in order to get me.

Finding the right qualities you are looking for in a man is really important to make a relationship last a lifetime.

Hi Riza, I guess Singlegirl has a good point here ...

2008-12-04T01:26:36.525-08:00

Hi Riza, I guess Singlegirl has a good point here then. It might be a good indicator to move on?

Thanks for commenting!

Ask to meet her friends and introduce her to your ...

2008-12-03T20:03:00.000-08:00

Ask to meet her friends and introduce her to your friends (if you are not a part of the same social circle). This seems like a no-brainer, but a lot of guys wait until they are firmly settled into a relationship before taking this step. A girl will wonder, ‘if he really likes me he would introduce me to his friends’.

--this part sounds like Christopher..don't ask who he is, I'm still sour about it LOL...He seemed so uninterested in me that even if I see him on facebook, he doesnt even bother to add me or even tell me about his friends...