<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235078808062443655.post2913687497533136285..comments</id><updated>2008-11-20T16:52:58.743-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Relationship Digest: My friend says Independence</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://relationship-digest.com/feeds/2913687497533136285/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/2913687497533136285/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://relationship-digest.com/2008/11/my-friend-says-independence.html'/><author><name>bobbyboy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15941342429838457419</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235078808062443655.post-2418579745330032637</id><published>2008-11-20T16:52:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-20T16:52:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>lol Diva, how can one answer that question?Truth i...</title><content type='html'>lol Diva, how can one answer that question?&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Truth is that all friends that I post about here are real friends (and some acquaintances)that espouse their opinions in many different relational situations. There are male, female, married, divorced, separated, gay etc. I have many friends.&lt;BR/&gt;I guess I'm just a very friendly guy ;)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/2913687497533136285/comments/default/2418579745330032637'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/2913687497533136285/comments/default/2418579745330032637'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://relationship-digest.com/2008/11/my-friend-says-independence.html?showComment=1227228720000#c2418579745330032637' title=''/><author><name>bobbyboy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15941342429838457419</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15598434716681559623'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://relationship-digest.com/2008/11/my-friend-says-independence.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235078808062443655.post-2913687497533136285' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/posts/default/2913687497533136285' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235078808062443655.post-4929626476081691426</id><published>2008-11-20T15:57:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-20T15:57:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>So, is this friend "your friend"?</title><content type='html'>So, is this friend "your friend"?</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/2913687497533136285/comments/default/4929626476081691426'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/2913687497533136285/comments/default/4929626476081691426'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://relationship-digest.com/2008/11/my-friend-says-independence.html?showComment=1227225420000#c4929626476081691426' title=''/><author><name>The Imaginary Diva</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03233392020475589882</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://relationship-digest.com/2008/11/my-friend-says-independence.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235078808062443655.post-2913687497533136285' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/posts/default/2913687497533136285' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235078808062443655.post-6776683407086521414</id><published>2008-11-19T11:14:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-19T11:14:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Wow, three lady comments, yet three different type...</title><content type='html'>Wow, three lady comments, yet three different type answers :O&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Singlegirl, if she knows what she wants and feels she wont accept anything less, then I agree with her.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Sharon, she's an alpha female and if she feels he's a beta male, she may move on, we'll see.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;I&gt;We are SO, SO confused..... :) What a vicious cycle, I tell ya.&lt;/I&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;hahaha you don't have to tell me ;)&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Jessica, you may have a point about what's going on behind closed doors or behind each others back. And it may be that either one knows what they want yet...hmmm&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Thanks guys for the feedback :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/2913687497533136285/comments/default/6776683407086521414'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/2913687497533136285/comments/default/6776683407086521414'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://relationship-digest.com/2008/11/my-friend-says-independence.html?showComment=1227122040000#c6776683407086521414' title=''/><author><name>bobbyboy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15941342429838457419</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15598434716681559623'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://relationship-digest.com/2008/11/my-friend-says-independence.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235078808062443655.post-2913687497533136285' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/posts/default/2913687497533136285' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235078808062443655.post-3183989049395526598</id><published>2008-11-19T03:19:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-19T03:19:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>It sounds like none of them is ready for the relat...</title><content type='html'>It sounds like none of them is ready for the relationship if they can't come to an agreement. Yup, there are double standard in many issues. Let's say that both are doing the same thing,flirting, cheating or whatever while being in a relationship,  it would fall harder on woman. If a guy is angry at a woman for doing the wrong things, beware he could be doing the same thing behind her back and she doesn't even know it.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/2913687497533136285/comments/default/3183989049395526598'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/2913687497533136285/comments/default/3183989049395526598'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://relationship-digest.com/2008/11/my-friend-says-independence.html?showComment=1227093540000#c3183989049395526598' title=''/><author><name>jessica</name><uri>allabouthabits.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://relationship-digest.com/2008/11/my-friend-says-independence.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235078808062443655.post-2913687497533136285' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/posts/default/2913687497533136285' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235078808062443655.post-3981478554039089418</id><published>2008-11-18T22:43:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-18T22:43:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Uh Bobby.  She's looking for a wuss.  It won't tak...</title><content type='html'>Uh Bobby.  She's looking for a wuss.  It won't take her long to get bored with the whole scenario.  Then, she'll start talking about finding men who are not "doormats".&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;We are SO, SO confused..... :)  What a vicious cycle, I tell ya.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/2913687497533136285/comments/default/3981478554039089418'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/2913687497533136285/comments/default/3981478554039089418'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://relationship-digest.com/2008/11/my-friend-says-independence.html?showComment=1227076980000#c3981478554039089418' title=''/><author><name>Sharon</name><uri>http://www.thedivanetwork.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://relationship-digest.com/2008/11/my-friend-says-independence.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235078808062443655.post-2913687497533136285' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/posts/default/2913687497533136285' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235078808062443655.post-5894913070203081809</id><published>2008-11-18T20:18:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-18T20:18:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I think what your friend wants is something attain...</title><content type='html'>I think what your friend wants is something attainable.  She doesn't want to walk all over a guy, just to be able to decide how she wants to live.  To be an equal partner.  &lt;BR/&gt;I couldn't live with anything less.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/2913687497533136285/comments/default/5894913070203081809'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/2913687497533136285/comments/default/5894913070203081809'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://relationship-digest.com/2008/11/my-friend-says-independence.html?showComment=1227068280000#c5894913070203081809' title=''/><author><name>SINgleGIRL</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07219304672072466471</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://relationship-digest.com/2008/11/my-friend-says-independence.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235078808062443655.post-2913687497533136285' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/235078808062443655/posts/default/2913687497533136285' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>