I was reading a short article from "YourRomanceGuide" and it had some interesting points. What struck me was this part:
"We are like a child in friendships but behave like an adult in relationships.
If you remain inside your boundaries in a relationship and not try to change it into a close friendship, you will have longer relationships. Telling all does not help in relationships."
I agree and disagree here. If one tries to change the relationship then ok maybe things can go off track, however, there is a certain amount of friendship that should be apart of the relationship. How many times have you heard from couples that have been together for many years (sometimes even 40 or 50 years), say that their partner is their best friend? Personally, I believe that this friendship is really the glue that can hold a relationship together through the really rough times.
Changing a romantic relationship to a friendship-no, but being friends or becoming better friends in a romantic relationship-YES!
4 years ago