Big boobs, small boobs-big butts, small butts.

Did you ever hear any of these phrases?

"Hey, look at the set of T*ts on that!"
"Nah man, she's gotta have knockers, big ones."
"Hell, I'd hit that!"

Chances are if you're a lady you didn't. But, you might have heard:

"Hey baby, shake it, don't break it."
"I better call heaven 'cause their missing an angel."
"Hey baby, don't hurt yourself."

I think woman know that men are visual creatures. We size woman up by appearance. I'm not saying it's right or wrong-it just is. I believe that it's ok to compliment a lady, but tastefully. Although many men would say that they would love the attention of woman, would they like cat calls?

Imagine a guy with a good body getting gawked at by just about every woman that he comes across. Getting cat calls, many sexual in nature, as though all the woman care about is doing him. Sure, for a little while it may feel good to get that kind of attention, but what about everyday? Everywhere you go, even when you're having a bad day? How would we guys feel if we knew that almost any lady that talked to us, or looked at us, was looking not at us, not talking to us, but to a piece of meat?

I have friends who seem obsessed with giving compliments of all kinds to just about any lady that passes their way. I see the frustration in the eyes of some of these ladies. If I can clearly see the woman's frustration, can't my friends as well? Maybe they just don't care or are proving some kind of manly thing to someone? Maybe, just like kryptonite feeds superman's weakness, the lack of saying something weakens a man's ego?

This is one of those situations where common sense comes into play. Where, I believe, we should put ourselves in woman's shoes and walk a mile.

I just don't think woman appreciate cat calls the way men seem to think they do. Am I wrong here?

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