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Saturday, December 20, 2008

Self relationship relolution

Wow, it's almost 2009! Where does the time fly? Yep, it's almost that time where many of us make that new years resolution. The beginning of a new year=the start of a new goal.

Some of the more common goals that I've heard through the years were to loose weight, stop smoking, eat healthier, get married etc.

For me, I don't make new years resolutions anymore because I make them as I need to, anytime. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against NYR's, no, I think they can be a great motivator.

What I have been doing for the past 3-5 years I would say, has been to try and be a better person. I remind myself of this goal everyday. It's an ongoing process with no end. By doing this however, I have found that many of the old NYR's I had made are included in my day to day resolutions of becoming that better person.

There's no need to list the things I am working on to become a better person as each person may have different goals, besides, it can be a personal journey as well.

So I guess what I'm saying is that every new year I have my own NYR's, and everyday is a new year. Although it can be a tough journey, I find it easier to succeed-one small step at a time.

Good luck to you with your new years resolutions :)



  1. I like your way of thinking Bobby!


  2. Time is really flying! There is so many goals to accomplish but be a better person does sum is all up.

  3. @healthygirl as my Mom would say-one goal at a time :)

  4. Hi Bobby,
    Just had a quick read of some of your early entries and I like what I see so far.

    I definitely will have a deeper read when I log on again

    You may check out my blog at http:whatsinaname-jan.blogspot.com/
    comments are welcomed

  5. Hi Jan, thanks for stopping by. You have an interesting blog and quite original :)


Thanks so much for your comment and input! :)

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