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Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Guest post from Jazzie

31 ways to make a girl smile

1. Don’t hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she’ll feel left out

2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.

3. Hug her from behind

4. Leave her voice messages to wake up.

5. Wrestle with her

6. Don’t go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.

7. If you’re talking to another girl, when you’re done talking, walk over and

hug her and kiss her…. let her know she’s yours and they aren’t.

8. Write her notes or call her just to say “hi”..and not just at night after you’ve already been out with other girls.

9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.

10. Play with her hair.

11. Pick her up
12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn’t like it.

13. Make her laugh, if you can make her laugh, you can make her do


14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.

15. If she’s mad at you, kiss her.

16. If you care about her, then tell her

17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she’ll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she’ll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she’ll most likely wear it to bed).

18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you’re alone.

19. Look her in the eyes and smile.

20. Hang out with her on weekends

21. Kiss her in the rain

22. Kiss her just for the heck of it

23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.

24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if

its simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER. it’s the thought that counts.

25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don’t (it’ll make her happy.)

26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don’t care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don’t necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.

27. Give her what she wants

28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.

29. Tell her shes beautiful, she needs to know her striving is working.

30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang

with your girlfriend all the time

31. If u care about her…SHOW her!



  1. I would say that's a great list, but hey I'm a girl :)

  2. Hey, I don't blame you Jess, I agree with it and I'm a guy :)

  3. Lot's of good stuff there. But,um, I would have a hard time pretending to get excited about a stuffed animal. Not my thing. Then again, I would hope that any man dating me would get that.

  4. SG, I would hope that any guy dating you would take the time to learn your tastes :)

  5. A sweet list!
    Things like these remind me that it's the little things that can make the day for my girlfriend.
    I've had my own share of experiences,
    and I guess it's what you do all the time, meaning those things, rather than the big things once in a while!
    My own story is posted at my blog :)
    It's all about her.

  6. @Ralph I think that the little things are the glue of relationships :)


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